I agree with 25. I know it's crazy, but nothing you say or do is going to get through to your W right now. Try and find a "sorry you feel that way. I'm just going to carry on looking after things here the best I can" tone maybe? And ignore as much of the self-pitying spew as possible. Focus hard on what is best for you and your daughters because your wife is on the crazy train and when she doesn't like the consequences of it, it's easier to blame you.


Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17