25, what do you mean by Don't assume that you'll come out wanting?
Is that to say, don't assume that her talking to OM spells the complete end of the relationship? =Don't assume you will always come up short. There are things about you she loved, that are still true. And OM's won't have all your qualities. I am not thrilled to admit this, but The few men I have met are not as smart, (generally) or as educated or in as good shape as my h is. Often they seemed threatened that I have a doctorate and some opinions, even though I'm very diplomatic about them.
Many of the guys also have many good traits, but I'm being as honest as I can be about my reaction to meeting them and chatting more. In other words, I often feel that my h and I were well suited to each other. So, if you have some flaws you really know are valid - then work on them and remove that negative data.
Yes, last night/today has been a big emotional roller coaster for me. Esp at the party when people asked what was up.
This evening was focused on the kids and was much better. Some of the new friends I have made have been texting me, so that made me feel better
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
