Thank you Sotto and KML. I still feel the shadow of a 2x4 hanging over me. XH is luckily not a fan of social media, so no links there. Bubbles is not on either, but her friends are and some are friends of my daughters (we were all one big happy family, once upon a time). I have unfriended almost everyone from that community. For a while after our separation, Assistant A and B and hygienist G would show XH some of my FB posts (I'm a rare poster)...I know because he would mention it. Not so sure if that happens now. I have a feeling that they may be my next bridges burned. That seems strange to say, because they've been so supportive, but its a feeling I have. I probably just won't put a lot of energy into those friendships...too much of a link to XH, as they work for him. Funny how I never thought I would be spurred to behave the way I have been. Self preservation and transcending the BS, I guess.


M-51 H-54
2D-27 and 25
M-26 yrs
Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15
He moved out 10-3-15
D filed 1-27-16
D final 10-27-16

Kindness, kindness, kindness.