Ah Cil, no 2x4 from me either - just a huge hug (((((Cil))))) and I understand how difficult it is. Yes, your daughter may want to talk to you about the unfriending on FB and you can let her know that it was rough on you to see some of the information she was posting. I guess unfollowing could also have been an option for you?

FB is a great tool, but at a time like this, it's the worst place to be and if there is a link between the poster, you and your ex, there could well be stuff you don't want to see. I'm lucky enough that my ex was never active on social media and I have no e-links with him. Still I managed to cause myself a bit of hurt this weekend by googling his name and opening a window into his life - dumb - and didn't help me at all!!

Take care my lovely xx

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Me 48 H 46
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus