Treasur,

Hope you are able to enjoy this holiday weekend. I had a q for you about the comment you made about gifts and something my w said to me. I am trying to figure out if this is a real criticism or something to be ignored. So giving gifts has always been a big deal to me. Lots of thoughts, lots of money. W always said she adored these and thought it was one of my best qualities. At b d, she said my great gifts were always about "me" and not her. I have tried to wrap my head around this and it still makes no sense. Strangely, many of her favorite things that she still wears and uses are gifts from me--purses, shoes, jewelry, lingerie, etc.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving