Picking up Her MESS

[Gordie]

So heartbreaking. Agree with kyh. In addition to an emotional crisis, this is a legal and financial crisis. I know money is tight so you may qualify for public legal assistance or family services. Do not let her take the kids against your wishes and you absolutely have the right to know where they are living. Are you legally married? You need to protect yourself and your kids. You can't negotiate with your w right now. She is literally running away from you so it sounds like you have taken the first step in that you have stopped chasing her. This is a nightmare, hugs to you and your kids. You are stronger than you think.