Kyh, thank you so can I ask did your W ever snap out of it, I pray to God everyday to see a sign. I have to say I always had faith but lately my faith is stronger I believe something big will come out of this. We both faught so hard to be together and also to adopt our kids I know our story can't end like this.

Also I have everything of hers. Is it normal to literally walk away from her things. I am still trying to wake up from this nightmare.

I went to see a lawyer is 3500 to just get started. And even the lawyer doesn't know how to file. She lost why only take one. I honestly believe my W is suicidal but having a child keeps her busy she has told me I need one of them i can't handle all 3 but i need one please. Understand so before this she talk about making her life insurance higher and one time she said there days she wants to drive her car over a bridge. This is when she went dark for weeks. I am lost I love her and so in love with my W I am so use to fixing everything and not being able to help her drive's me crazy she didn't deserve this. She had a bad childhood i knew it was going catch up sooner than later.


At BD
Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW June,2017
Currently 2018
Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9