You are right, don't concern yourself with her. Don't give her power by mentioning her name or reaching out to her. Worry about you and your techniques. They are working. That's what matters.
I know its hard to forget or worry about the other person. But we give them power when we mention their names or talk to our spouses about OP. Forget they even exist.
Sometimes I feel like nothing is working. I feel lost and distracted. Can't concentrate on the kids, friends or work the way I should be. Meanwhile, he's galavanting outside of the home, speaking to OM whenever he wants and I'm the nice wife at home, giving in to his advances because I love him.
________________________ M: 35 H: 36 M: Together 16 years; M 6 S14, D12 BD: 8/11 H Moved Out: 8/13 PA confirmed: 9/2 H Back Home: 9/27 OW Says she's pregnant/R on hold: 10/12
