I just meant that there had to be more to it for every marital problem to be my fault. I didn't see the pattern. It took some very in-my-face contradictions and twisting that made me look back and realize every problem we had was my fault.
The friend I went out with last night was divorced and I didn't know why. It turns out his wife was never wrong and the counselor told him his wife was a narcissist. It was good to talk about his sitch and what he went through
M: 41 W: 41 Married 2003 2 boys 9 & 6 Bomb Dropped May 2017