We're also supposed to start family counseling as WW's drinking has caused a fair amount of alienation from our DD's. So between her EA's and her drinking our family is very broken.

Not sure how to approach this one. My thought is to tell FC that we're looking to figure out how to function as a family while WW decides if she is actually going to divorce LBH. All the while letting it be known that I don't do divorce.

Not even sure if FC is worth the effort.

WW also says things like "DD's will be much happier if we're apart" "All the tension in the house is caused by LBH" "I think DD's would be disappointed if we stay together" "I think we'll be better as friends"


M50 WW50
T27 M23
D17
D15
EA#1 3/2010
BD 5/2/2017

Trying to make sense out of crazymaking