New to the journey and thank you.

[Kylo]

Well, now I know a little more about walls! I'll be much more clued in to all kinds of emotional signs in a relationship. This could make the next one miserable for her! I find it funny/ slightly embarrassing that I could be told it was my fault every time and it took me 13 years to realize how out of whack that was.

I got upset all through the marriage with the arguments that didn't resolve; and I thought I was right most of the time, but I never realized something was awry on a different level.