I think you can have sex, just get up and walk off when you finish like it didnt matter. Tell him thank you for the sex and then leave, go out, go act like nothing just happened. Stop letting him take control of those situations. Don't wait around to be held after or to have intimate talks. He's a man and men egos can be shattered if you act like his sex meant nothing to you. The only thing you did wrong was talk to him afterwards. Next time he say we can't do that anymore, you look at him in his eyes and say ok and walk away. Don't ask why or stand around waiting for another comment.
I definitely did that after. When he told me later on that we shouldn't do this anymore, I said "I know".. and then he said "It was so good though". I also said I know. I feel cheap now, but happy that we were able to connect that way. I'm sure he feels like he's cheating on his EA partner.
WTF
________________________ M: 35 H: 36 M: Together 16 years; M 6 S14, D12 BD: 8/11 H Moved Out: 8/13 PA confirmed: 9/2 H Back Home: 9/27 OW Says she's pregnant/R on hold: 10/12
