Also meant to mention that being distant helps with detaching but hinders connection or possible connection. I did what I needed to get this far. I review periodically to see what continues to serve me. Thanks. Again FY
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
