Sounds exactly like my sitch. My 180 was caring more, which makes it hard for us. Because according to the rules, but yet are 180s are to show more affection. And like you my W would notice the change start to loosen up. Then suddenly would be mad at me or start arguments. Likely she would do something disrespectful involving OM to piss me off. That typically would happen when she would feel like she was portraying OM in some weird way. Who is certainly not feeling that way with his own W. His family is still together and just fine. My W is the clearly the village idiot.
