Maybe what I am doing is working!!! But I hear and second you. I also heard a M expert give his top tip to husband's about having a good M: give her what she wants. I say why not. It is not so simple and should not be done as a "nice guy"
However throughout this I have often thought that both W and I seem to have same sentiments, frustrations and issues but she put me on the enemy team. Recent episodes back up that but less of the enemy.
I am prepared to take a few more steps alone or first. I won't do it with condition but will add my requests to the table in time.
I have time. No need for knee jerk reactions. I take on peoples advice, mould NY opinion and then take appropriate actions.
Tresure, for me goals can be related to dreams, notjust mundane. Main high I say
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
