I never say an unkind word about W. I don't cast blame either. I just try and be factual and concise.
D said Mom yells at her a lot at home. I asked D if she yells more or less than she did before. D said more, but then apparently asked W if she yelled more or less. W told her less bc she is happy. ( I only asked bc D brought it up and I was concerned how W was reacting at her place, and if the tension and issues she claimed were mostly due to me had subsided. In some ways yes, in some no)
Just baked cookies with D, and we are enjoying them. D said, I wish W was here to share with. Can we take her some today? Broke my heart to say no.
I see 25 post that D doesn't have to be the end. I have friends and family tell me of people they know reconciling after divorce. I want to be ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017