The other question I have is should I capitulate and stay at my parents on a week on week off basis?

I don't feel that I should be the one to leave the house considering:

1) I didn't go outside the marriage multiple times for comfort and validation from the opposite sex.
2) I'm not the one who wants the divorce

WW thinks it should be me to leave since I have a place to stay and she doesn't. She'll turn it around on me by saying "you have a place to stay for free, I don't". I don't want to keep her from our DD's but it's really not my problem that she wants out of the marriage.

The other crazy thing is I don't really want D but yet I'm doing all the leg work (researching mediators, trying to schedule appts, filling out the filing paperwork, etc).


M50 WW50
T27 M23
D17
D15
EA#1 3/2010
BD 5/2/2017

Trying to make sense out of crazymaking