Lost on how to save my marriage!

[joejoe1]

Sandi2

She is using the fact about and old girlfriend I had and I happen to see her and realized I was over as justification for her and her old boyfriend.

This guy cheated on her in high school and has been divorced twice. I'm not saying people don't change but seems to me that she is somewhat in fantasy world.

I read a poem she wrote the other day and in that poem, (she was hiding it) a section in there said. "She's confused. Loves is confusing, I'm love one and the other is always on my mind.". In the poem she asks is she comfusing her oneself.

She asks for help for all kind if things now. Help around the house, help with her going to college, help with the boys. She wasn't asking for a while. Now she is.

I have started detaching, distancing and doing 180s.

She seemed to be angry this morning for what reason I don't know. And I didn't care why. I have stopped following her around and doing the things she said I didn't do.

TXHubby

You have a blueprint and I'm going to use it. Please keep the advice coming.

Joejoe1