Limerence and My Situation Pt3

[Painful]

Looks like Mark disappeared from the forum. Very interesting reading as my sitch and timeline are similar with some differences (living arrangement, W hiding OM from D11). It struck me we've been together the same number of years and W is 9 years younger than me (we both are a couple of years younger than you guys). Just wanted to see from vets and others if I should start my own thread to get their advice or is it OK to continue on this one? Also, how do you add "below the line" info?