The w says she is not at the point were she can move forward with our relationship. She mentioned that on our outing that i set in motion. You warned me Sandi2!!
She does want to talk regilarly to improve communication between the too of us.
She is all over the map when it comes to her job some days it is great and then she may go weeks hating it. I was Mr fix it offering suggestions or i would say leave the issues at work now i listen and encourage her by reminding her of the quality of work she does. She has a couple co-workers she considers friends. She is not full time so hrs change from day to day. She has a hard time getting to work on time she will sleep on her lunch if working the full day and will be in bed early or if she is visiting us will fall asleep on sofa multiple times. Weekends will stay in bed late.
To compare a picture from last year and now my wife looks really tired. I mention a few post ago that my wife was the girl next door type she always looked after herself this is not the case right now How do i put this she is almost grubby in appearance.
My Gal is going great. Have connected with some old friends. My son and i have a regular night out movies and dinner.
A couple nights a week the family including the w sit down for a home cooked meal and family time after usually TV or sometimes a game.
Question
Do you think the w is only taking part in these evening because of the kids?
I ask that question knowing im mind reading but if she didnt want to have me in her life she could arrange evenings with kids without me.
