Yes i would be lying if i said all improvements were for me alone. At first it was i beleive just a stress reaction now it truly makes me feel good with yes a side hope that the w will notice...
Well, I think it's safe to say she probably notices. However, that doesn't guarantee a response. And in some cases, the W resents the fact that her H waited until she was "done", before he woke up and decided to change. There again is reason he needs to make his improvements for himself, his family, and his future.
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She has started to approach some of her friends. I did mention she was doing more with the kids also.
Okay, good.
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It has been a few weeks since she has shown any anger directly at me she just seems confused in general.
Confused about her feelings, or about what she wants to do at this point?
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She has mention before that she feels depressed she just will not take the next step to seek help
Well, you can't make an adult do something they want to do..........unless she appears to be suicidal.
I did not know she held down a job. Maybe she's not sleeping as much as I misinterpreted. Does she like her job, get along with co-workers, or just generally a blah attitude?
How is your GAL coming along?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
