Wading through v. 2.0

[leahsue]

Oh dear, sweet, wise Cadence. Just this morning I realized you had "gone dark" on us , and I tried to pull up your thread and say "Check in with us!", but for some reason I could only find where you'd posted on other threads. (I did the same with PsySara, but found her's. ???) Anyway, I've been thinking about you all day since that happened, and I'm so glad you posted.

BUT...... it makes my heart heavy to see your post. You know what? It IS JUST.PLAIN.PAIN. And you know as well as anyone there's no shortcut around it. I hate, hate, hate that we've all been treated this way. WE are the good guys. If there was any way I could, I'd come to where you are, we'd do something crazy for the holiday! (Ownit told me on the phone she booked herself a whitewater rafting trip. How awesome does that sound???)

You need to crawl out from under the rock and make yourself some plans. YOU KNOW those long, empty weekends are the worst! They set us back emotionally. When it's hardest to make yourself do it, that's when you need it the most.

Rejection $ucks. Just plain and simple.

I wish I had more to offer you, to help you through this day. Words sort of fail me right this minute.

But just know you are loved, and you ARE going to come out happy on the other side of this.

(((((((( Cadence )))))))))