Hi Irish, I think it is the right thing to do, to help keep the door open for your ex W to reconnect with your daughters at some point. I think MLCers are so sensitive when it comes to any suggestion that they may have done something wrong. And from her reaction, it sounds as though she's feeling that way. She sounds resentful of your involvement, and unhappy about how her girls feel towards her. And yet her actions and decisions have helped create this situation.
I think we have to try and live every phase of our lives in a way that we can look back on with peace. Try to do our best, by ourselves and by others. Try not to cause pain and to decently and honestly deal with tough things. I'm sad that your ex W will come to feel that she has lost something most precious. But she isn't in that place just now and there is still a me, me ring to her replies. In truth, she would need to find more genuine remorse and humility to reconnect, and I truly hope that she does.
I don't see this as yours to fix Irish - only to support and help keep that door ajar for your girls. Take care and I hope you have a lovely weekend :)x
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
