The holiday was great. Exept that my oldest developed oritis on her right ear after some days. Nevertheless I informed Elise and the following days she textmessaged and called for our daughter several times. Offcourse the topic is not "us" but our children.
When I was at Mallorca she wasn't home and was with OM (I rather call him OB because in my opinion he is just a Boy).
She asked at wich time I would return. But I didn't not reply very fast. When I was home with the kids, she was home but allready a sleep.
The last three days she stays again in the evening at home. Probably because the kids are again home.
Till today she didn't not greed of spoke against me. That is one of the difficulties. I can only speak to my children and not to an adult one at home.
The school started today in Belgium. And she texted me that everything was ok when leaving the kids behind.
She has been "fatted" alot and also some teachers noticed it, those who know of the situation.
One of the "good" news is that OM/OB does not work any more over there since this week. The nerd has a contract as a seller somewhere else for three months, nevertheless in the neighbourhood. He has no real nice salesman clothes, so she took a day off to get shopping together. He would also work in the weekens every two weeks.
In the past he started two different studies, but he never finished it. I heard he will study again also...
Tomorrow Elise decided to celibrate our boy's birthday with my family-in-law. Like I said otherwise I don't have the need to celebrate it again. So I go out for hiking and sauna afterwards. I want soms time alone after being in Mallorca with three kids all alone.
She stil is always texting like crazy. She did not see the kids for 14 days for the first because on holiday with me. And when the kids where telling their adventures overthere, she is still texting with him. I find that very awfull for them and I don't recognize Elise her old behaviour here in.
