So a couple of things, that I have done today, that I think will help me detach.

So about 2 weeks ago, I fired up the laptop I had not used in months. I went to log into facebook. Well, it logged her in automatically. At that exact moment she was getting a video chat from some guy. Her messenger was open and I read some of it. I wished I hadn't. I have said nothing to her, but I did snap pics and email them, in case I needed them for legal proceedings for some reason. One was a pic he sent, a pic of her sexy drunk, and a pic of their convo. My jaw literally dropped seeing this. I deleted it. I also destroyed the laptop.

The day before my daughter's Bday, I found her Tinder account. I got some screen caps and emailed them to myself. I deleted it.

Her amazon account was hooked into my amazon app (I guess she did that at some point), so I know everything she has ordered since we split. I have unhooked the account.


Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017