Ah Irish, the poem and tattoo is too much. Mine posted stuff on FB just before hot and heavy with OW2 about Odysseus' desire to return home to his wife and kid. Just part of the crazy soup. Instead he took up with a single mom that OW1 told me he'd been talking about for a year. Ah the joys of being with a narcissistic MLCer. At least you are divorced from yours. That has proven very difficult for me.