Much better day today. Reading a book called Solution-Oriented Women which is giving me some good work ideas too. So, not much thinking about H/D but more about what I see as my problems right now. How I've been tackling them (or not) and how I can take a 180 approach to them.
Interestingly of my 5 problems, only two are related to H. One how I feel about him no longer loving or wanting me in his life. The second being about the crappy way he's handled/handling the D process. So, 3/5 are just about me. Yay. More work to do on infamous baby steps and actions, but I feel much more positive.
Re H/D - I've decided to go NC completely for Sept. I need a break from this stuff and as my H has taken months on the D process, I reckon I can take a timeout now too! A mean bit of me (like Mean Girl DB) thinks that it's about time he feels what silence is like when you're trying to deal with practical stuff too!
It will be tough for me because it's our wedding anniversary on the 12th Sept, so I need you all to keep the 2x4s coming please.
Day 1: NC with Horrid H
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17
