I had a bunch of colognes because I used to get free ones from a connect, but I didn't have a choice of what I could get. So, I just rolled with it for a while.
But, once BD and S happened, I chucked them all out and got stuff that I used to wear and love.
Right now, my go to is the classic cologne by Jean Paul Gaultier. When I wore it, my W noticed right away. But, I got it for me cuz I love it, not what she might like. Wear whatever you want to, and if it's what she got, that's cool too. As long as it's what you want.