Jmstl's thread-Part 2

[Jmstl]

Nothing wrong with being jacked, and looking and smelling good. That's what it's about makes me feel dope too.

For sure. I make sure that I am shaved, wearing my new clothes, new shoes. I put on her favorite cologne. I don't say anything about it. I let my body and my actions speak for themselves. I know she has noticed how fit I am getting, because multiple people have noticed. She is really getting into shape too. I really want to say "Wow you look amazing", but I don't. I pretend I don't notice. We aren't friends on myfitnesspal any more either, so she doesn't see the activities I do, like Kickboxing, and hiking.

Yesterday, I went to throw away the rest of the boxes from storage. I noticed put some wedding stuff in the box to be thrown away. I grabbed them, and set them aside. I am going to put them in an envelope. I will say nothing to her about it, but if she ever mentions she regrets disposing of our wedding stuff (and if and only if she wants to reconcile), I have decided I would mail it to her. It was a big part of our life and a huge deal. While she might be trying to erase all of that now, she may regret it. If she does, then in my head, giving it to her will show how much I truely cared.

Obviously, I NOT going to do this right now. But only under that specific circumstance.