Jm....I also make sure I am looking good when I see her. New shirt on, if it's sunny my new shades, maybe a tank-top so she can see how jacked I am now. I had a beard before that was grey, shaved that off. My hair was greying too....went to a more upscale barber and dyed it back to my natural dark brown color and am letting my hair grow out on top. I also went and bought some fancy hair shampoo, body lotion and cologne. Just stuff like that to make me feel better. She may not notice but it helps with the confidence. I have turned into a metrosexual .
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