The kids and l continue to stay busy the w will sometimes ask to join us. We do not adjust our plans for her if she wants to be involved she has to make adjustments in her schedule.
Ive noticed when she calls mostly just to talk about her day and work now that i just listen and dont offer advise or a sure fire fix for the propblem. I just validate... she has began to ask me question about my day and how work is going..
We even are joking aroud a bit. I still see the extreme mood swings
One minute she can be very upbeat and engaged with family the and the next she will be curled up in the corner of the sofa looking drained and exhausted.
GAL activities this weekend. 1. More touring on my bike 2. A day with the kids shopping, Movie and dinner and if w comes so be it. If not plans wont change. 3. Afternoon of fishing/visiting with long time friends.
So not really detached but i beleive for the most part interactions are more on my terms. And smiles and Thank yous have become part of it instead of huffs and hissing thru teeth!!
Time to update some of my clothing also had a lady i work with tell me it was about time to start showing off the new me.
And no Woundedfool that does not mean a new speedo is on order!
