OMG, Tread, I'm so sorry - for your loss and for having to sit through this - seriously sometimes I think God has a really warped sense of humour.
I guess unless W knew you were going to be there, the poems are just a public airing of the s**t in her head...not your circus. And same for what anyone else thinks or believes or does.
You and S13 are the priority now and you've had some good advice from others about protecting him. Let everyone else carry their own monkeys.
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17