if things deteriorate in the conversations, marital revisions, blame assignments, etc
If he says something with validity about a mistake you made
you can say "H, I'm sorry I hurt you. If I had it all to do over again, there are lots of things I'd do differently".
If he says something you really STRONGLY disagree with or do not recall it at all, you can say
"h, wow I don't recall it that way but I'm sorry it hurt you. I'm sure If I had it all to do again, I'd do that differently."
these are not doormat statements but they show your willingness to change.
make sense?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
