My husband filed for divorce

[25yearsmlc]

LA

so sorry you are here. Just a quick request and I'll be back to read your whole thread.

Can you fill in the signature block (on your profile) so that we can get a recap of your marriage's length, whether you have kids and how old they are and your h's age (I recall you are 43).

And the "main" issues can be summarized by the "Bomb date" and any big fat reasons (or what he claims they are). It helps A LOT b/c some of us post on several DBers threads and it's very easy to forget which marriage is which.

Thanks.

And btw, depending on the length of the m, kids, the issues, our advice will vary.

Did you say you are reading the DR book? If so, great.
And hiring a DB coach is a very good idea.

I found mine to be exactly what I needed then.

And protecting yourself financially IS DBing. It's self care, and without that it's hard to have respect from a spouse.

And spousal respect is part of every healthy m.

Don't give up and keep posting. See about hiring a coach. If you paid out of pocket before, then a 3 session package is well worth it, imo.

((( )))