No I think I get the point I was asking from a pure statistical stance
Unfortunately, we don't have any numbers for you, but I can tell you this much........over the years that I've been reading threads on the board, the W's that did want their H back, were interested b/c he let go and stopped trying to get her back. He would move ahead and enjoy his life without her........and without his attention on her.
LBH's are afraid to let go, b/c they have this idea it will push the W farther away. No, pursuing pushes her away! When she sees you not interested or bothered by her, and moving forward......... it attracts her.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
