Ok but how often does it get them to come back or want to come back
I think you're missing the point.
No I think I get the point I was asking from a pure statistical stance
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017