Finding my way out of the dark - Part 3

[Holding]

Thanks for the support Leah, EastTN, and Acc.

Tread, I believe there is an OM, but it may be long distance (unless there are multiple OMs).

AS, you always do a good job of holding my feet to the fire, and I appreciate your efforts. You make me think hard about my actions and motivations.

My wife's anger is something I can easily detect. It comes out in her tone of voice very readily. That said, I did make an assumption that she was angry with me instead of the situation. That assumption colored my approach, but I did still have a willingness to help her if she asked me. For the record, she did not ask me, she said she needed me to do it. Her barking orders at me is a longstanding issue in our M, and I've repeatedly asked her to stop.