STBXW still isn't working, so I'm paying for just about anything that D needs right now.
Im still having a hard time following this.
Dont you have some kind of separation agreement or even a divorce decree? Are you giving her alimony or spousal support? If so, then I dont see why you should be giving her money.
Otherwise, then it makes more sense that if she isnt working that you should have an alternative custody arrangement. Where do you draw the line between funding your W's laziness vs. supporting D?
