Honesty is a great approach. I wouldn't do it any other way if I was in your situation with this date. She knew you weren't single and available, so making the move was on her. All good. Yeh, live your life.
Good to know. I am trying to get over the guilt I feel. My red line in our marriage was infidelity. And in a way, this still feels like cheating, even though I know in reality it isn't. She said she has already divorced me in her heart. Only time and some good DB techniques will tell, I guess.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017