Tread....I agree, my W could give a $hit less what I do, what happens to me, etc. I think it is the hardest thing I have had to accept. I can rationalize a lot of things but how she could be so cold and emotionless towards the father of her 2 children with me never treating her bad in my entire life is beyond me. I guess the same applies to those H's as well. You are much further a long than me but I am not sure how much long I can limbo it.