I'm looking for piecing (as I understand it), but she doesn't seem to be heading there. She seems perfectly satisfied staying where we are right now.
I need some closure or at least an idea of where she is.
Without other advice, I believe that I will suggest that we have a talk. Otherwise, I don't believe that she will ever initiate one.
I agree. You need to know where she stands. You need to know, beforehand, what you are willing to accept.....or not accept. In other words, know yourself and where you stand. I think she'll try to slick it over and you may not get much from her......and if you push, she'll either shut down or get mad and storm. I wish you luck.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
