She made the appointments during the day and with the amount of time I have already missed from work I couldn't make them. Before all this mess this wouldn't have been a problem, she would have done the same thing but it's different now. She is carrying on like nothing has changed as far as the kids are concerned. I will admit I need to do a better job of interacting with her but currently there is ZERO communication between us. I am more than willing to talk with her, I am upbeat in and around the house, with my kids and friends and family. She does not give off any signal that I am in her life right now. I am giving her as much space as she needs and wants.