Wife Wants to Leave Marriage 5

[sandi2]

So sorry to hear about your grandmother. It's tough to lose our grandparents, and you feel the need for support from your W, but she is too wrapped up in her private affairs.

Told her I plans around that time , so she asked what I planned and I told her.

You absolutely need to break the habit of telling her about your plans. She lost the privilege of knowing details about your plans.

Then I asked W what she had suddenly planned around that time. And she simply said that she was going out. Naturally I asked out to do what. And simply turned her head and refused to answered. I was making conversation. But apparently her plans are a secret, so I left it alone.

Oh Tread! . You must not ask her about her plans. Stop trying to make conversation, b/c you come across as being nosy and much too interested in what she's doing.

Again, I am sorry for your loss. Don't expect sympathy or warmth from your WW, and don't try to milk the situation to get it, either.