"Your no response means to me that your ok with this? Alright"
She is still playing the game. Can you not see how she is like someone counting to three......and wanting you to jump in and stop her? Look how many times she has texted you.
And YOU are jumping around as if on a bed of hot coal. Settle down and get control of yourself. You continue to ask the same questions, which have been answered many times. Instead of wanting to know what to say if she asks this or that, you need to think about Chris and where he stands.
If you do not take charge of your life right now, in this particular situation, she will keep you in a hot mess from now on. Now get a grip and decide that you will not be bullied, threatened, tested, or manipulated by your WW. IMHO, that would be worse than a D!
You were told several times to tell her you did not want a D, but that you would respect her decision. Did you tell her? If so, then there is nothing else to say, especially in a text.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!