AS,

Thank you!!!! This is why I came to this site to begin with, I need to write down the mess that is floating in my head and have people like you set me straight. Once I read your comments to my idiotic thought process it all made a bunch more sense, I just wish I could come to this conclusion on my own. Still learning I guess.

To update what happened, I talked to my son and without threatening to take stuff away I convinced him that going to IC would be really good for him and he agreed he could use some help. The only problem is my WW gave up and cancelled the appointment. We will reschedule hopefully for next week. S13 is going today. I am praying this will help my children as they are hurting. Thank you again! I really do appreciate your help.


Me 47 WW 44
T25 yrs M20
S18 S14 D12
Divorced 3/12/2018