So I sent the message; "I really don't appreciate you administering ultimatums about divorce due to my simple request. I feel that is very disrespectful to me. I would really love to sit down and and discuss this like two adults and see if we can work on our problems.I do not want a divorce, but if that is your choice I cannot do anything to stop you"
She came back with - "The last 3 weeks you have done nothing to reach out to me or try to spend time with me. The only time we have talked or seen each other is when I told you to come over or I texted you. How do you think that makes me feel? I feel that you have given up and have not shown anything that you still want this . Therefore, I have separated myself even more from you and now more than ever and probably ready to move forward with D. I didn't give you an ultimatum but I do expect you to respond to me. I've never not responded to you and left you hanging like that. "
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1