I've been giving her space, going dark, GAL. Still exercising, still meeting friends for drinks/lunch, still golfing, still keeping the house tidy and clean, trying new things, having fun with the kids, spending time at my family's cabin (which she loved.... I'm sure she's bummed she'll not be invited again). Bought a new car. Something less than 27 years old (my current ride), with air conditioning (yeah!). Been on a few dates.
That all sounds great Jim! Nice work!
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I just can't detach. I act "as if," but I still miss her terribly.
Like Thornton said, you're still very early in your sitch. OF COURSE you miss her! Be patient with yourself, it'll get better with time!
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I've been on a few dates, but I know I'm emotionally unavailable. I enjoy these women's company, but emotionally they don't mean anything to me 'cause I'm still hung up on her.
Yes, exactly why I always mention not to jump into dating too soon. You're not ready and it's not fair to the women you're going out with. Again, you just need more time. Be patient
