24 Mths in..I gotta whole lot of living to do now

[peacetoday]

Irish,

You did your best , now you know..she is not ready, her MLC is not complete

I think the only way they can face themselves is if they go full circle through the crises and find some help along the way
but sadly, I believe many MLCers get stuck and can't complete their journey

they get trapped in addiction which seems to have similar effects as MLC

breaking addictions are very difficult on their own , and add a real crises to it and you've got a major mental issue

we have no control on their ability to heal or get through it

WE help them with our acceptance and forgiveness (which you tried to give her)
but she is incapable of living in reality..so she lives in denial

its her only way for her to survive and she needs it

I know you want the girls to have their mother as she was but the door has closed and maybe its best to leave it alone

I believe strongly that if the MLCER ever gets through it, really get to the other side and clean themselves up
nothing will stop them from contacting us and their kids
and
if they continue in in addictions and MLC,,nothing can help the reconnection

You did well
if you can put closure on this and know your girls are ok and will be fine
trust Gods plan
let her go