Originally Posted By: Citygrl
Wouldn't be surprised if things don't go well with OW3 that he will bounce back to OW2 so preparing for that.


Or off to OW4. Wow, he's on quite the ride through Crazy Town! Glad you're not on the ride with him!

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I feel like I am just numb to it all. The man I married and loved and adored and vice versa has vanished.


I think that's the hardest part for many of us is accepting that our former spouse is well and truly gone. That is the case for many of us- it isn't a matter of our spouse just changing their mind and they need to change it back again, it is a situation where -they- have changed in deep and significant ways. They really are not the person we married and knew before.

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Is that an unintentional 180? Feeling apathy? Or part of the healing process. Not really feeling any anger just exhaustion and ......... apathy.


You're dropping the rope. There will be times where you pick it back up again, but eventually even that will stop.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57