By the way, hi Kaizen. You'll laugh, but I've missed hearing from you. Everytime I see you post in a thread, I always feel like whoever you are talking to is in good hands.
Aw, shucks. Thanks for the kind words. Im finding it harder and harder to 'gear up' to read new tales as my own divorce is getting farther and farther in the rear view. Also, life is just getting busier and busier!
Originally Posted By: EastTN
STBXW was supposed to take D to get her hair cut last weekend. I was going to pay for it
I sense a lot of discussion back and forth with W about money and who is paying for what always comes out unclear. What are the agreed upon 'rules' about who will pay for what? In some ways, I agree with Vapo - you cant be having discussions for the next 12 years regarding who is going to be paying for things like haircuts.I thought that you two had some kind of agreement already?
Originally Posted By: EastTN
I sent a text asking about specifics (how much to take off, etc)
And kind of the same thing here - like...why do you need to be discussing things like this? Your daughter is old enough to be able to discuss with you what she wants. Why are you running things like this through W? If she doesnt care enough to take her, then she can live with the results.
Originally Posted By: EastTN
threatening to call her lawyer (seriously).
....and? The lawyer will just laugh at her, probably!
